Thursday, January 19, 2012

I had my doubts...

You will recall from my post a couple of weeks ago that the transition from crib to bed has been a tough one for Roper. About every other night he says he wants his crib back. I remind him that he's a big boy and now he has a big boy bed to sleep in, and he responds that he is a baby, not a big boy, and he wants his crib! He usually follows up with an emphatic, "Baby Duncan is not getting my crib!"

I have plenty of patience for this...he will get through it. What I don't have patience for is a bed-time routine that drags on & on with him getting up every 10 minutes before finally falling asleep post-9:00...and then him coming downstairs pre-6:00, usually with his big brother in tow whom he has already awakened.

One of Graem's co-workers suggested that we try one of the children's alarm clocks. I was really doubtful about how this would work...but I researched them and we settled on this owl night light/alarm clock.

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We programmed the owl with an acceptable wake-up time (7:00). When you press the owl's tummy at night or anytime before 7:00, his face glows yellow and he plays lullabies for 5 minutes. Then at 7:00 his face glows green.

Like I said, I seriously doubted this was going to work, but I was willing to give it a try. I'm so glad to report that it has been working in the mornings for over a week now! I can hear Roper through the monitor pre-7:00 talking to himself waiting for the "green light." Some nights are still tough at bed-time, but it's getting much better. The owl gets 5 stars from this mama!


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Wednesday, January 18, 2012

Lefties

A few days ago I was talking to my mother (a leftie) about how I have been having trouble teaching Mason (also a leftie) the correct way to hold his pencil. He has never been especially interested in coloring or writing, which might be because he hasn't quite mastered the fine motor skill of holding his pencil/crayon properly. His preschool teacher has assured me that this is not unusual for boys. On the other hand (haha), he is captivated by some of the "games" I have on my iPad that require him to trace letters and numbers using just the tip of his finger (my favorites are the Montessorium games in case you are interested).

Anyway, as I was talking to my mother about all of this, she shared with me some interesting tidbits about lefties, some of which left me baffled. I turned to the expert on all random facts: google. I came across a blog (who knows if this stuff is true, but it agrees with some of the things my mom told me). Pretty interesting!

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Some facts on left-handed people from the Burlington News blog:
People who are left-handed make up about 5-15% of the population.

The genes for left-handedness are so far elusive.

Lefties are relatively numerous among creative men.

Lefties are relatively numerous among children rated as having an IQ higher than 131.

Lefties are relatively numerous among individuals who are good at music and maths.

Most left-handers draw figures facing to the right.

There is a high tendency in twins for one to be left-handed.

Stuttering and dyslexia occur more often in left-handers (Brantley's note: Mason has been in speech therapy for the past 6 months for mild stuttering).

Left-handers adjust more readily to seeing underwater.

Left-handers excel particularly in tennis, baseball, swimming and fencing.

Left-handers usually reach puberty 4 to 5 months after right-handers.

4 of the 5 original designers of the Macintosh (Apple) computer were left-handed.

1 in 4 Apollo astronauts were left-handed – 250% more than the normal level.

Almost 40% of the top tennis pros are left-handed.

Left-handed people are three times more likely than right-handed people to become alcoholics (scientists speculate that it is because the right hemisphere of the brain has a lower tolerance for alcohol than the left side of the brain).

People who are left-handed use the right side of the brain most while right-handed people use the left side most.

In many cultures children who were left-handed were forced to use their right hands instead.

More men than women are lefties.

Left-handed stroke victims recover faster than right-handed stroke victims.

Left-handers more likely than right handers to be creative geniuses.

Left-handers were severely discriminated against during the 18th and 19th centuries and it was often “beaten out” of people.

In adulthood, left-handers were often shunned by society, resulting in fewer marrying and reproducing.

As discrimination was reduced in the 20th century, the number of natural left-handers who stayed left-handed increased.

The rising age of motherhood contributed to more lefties, as, statistically, older mothers are more likely to give birth to left-handed children.

Left-handers are also generally better at 3-dimensional perception and thinking.

Left-handers are also usually pretty good at most ball sports and things involving hand-to-eye co-ordination.

Left-handers’ brains are structured differently in a way that widens their range of abilities.

A study found that left-handed men are 15% richer than right-handed men for those who attended college, and 26% richer if they graduated.

Left-Hander’s Day is August 13th.

In 60s music, Jimi Hendrix played a right-handed Fender Stratocaster strung upside down to accommodate his left-handedness. Paul McCartney of The Beatles is left-handed; when he first played for John Lennon, he played Lennon’s right-handed guitar upside-down. Ringo Starr of the Beatles is also left-handed.

Left-handed persons are thought to process information using a “visual simultaneous” method in which several threads can be processed simultaneously.

Left-handed people have an excellent ability to multi-task.

The hypothesis that left-handed people are predisposed to visual-based thought has been validated by a variety of evidence.

Left-handed university students are more likely to major in visually-based subjects, as opposed to language-based subjects. Another sample of 103 art students found an astounding 47% were left- or mixed-handed.

In the Middle Ages, writing with your left hand was punishable by death.

Half of left-handed people use a computer mouse with their right hand.

If both parents are left-handed, 50% of their offspring will be left-handed. 2 Righties only have a 2% chance of having a leftie. (Graem & I are both righties).

There are twice as many left handed boys than girls.

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Clearly this list was compiled by someone that is left-handed!


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Monday, January 16, 2012

Changing My Prediction

I have kept a pregnancy journal with all three of my pregnancies...and just last night when reading back through my journals I discovered something really interesting.

Mason's due date, based on his measurements during the 8-week ultrasound, was October 5. He was born on September 16, which was 19 days early.

I had completely forgotten that Roper's original due date, based on his measurements during the 8-week ultrasound, was August 4. My doctor adjusted that date to July 27 based on my cycle and his measurements at a later ultrasound. But...he was born on July 16, also 19 days before that original due date estimate of 8/4!

My due date this time around is 3/25...but at my appointment this morning I asked the nurse if she could look in my chart and tell me the due date that was indicated by my 8-week ultrasound...it was March 30. Subtract 19 days and you get March 11.

I have been saying all along that this baby would be born on 3/16, since my first two were born on the 16ths of their birth months...but now I'm thinking he might be born on 3/11!!

Time will tell...who knows, he might end up being one of those babies that decides to stay put until his due date!

On the subject of baby, we spent some time this weekend working on the nursery. The closet was full of my clothes, so I cleaned it out. And then I got distracted and cleaned out our upstairs linen closet (it needed it!).

Speaking of linens...the lady from that etsy baby bedding site never sent me the fabric swatches that I requested. I followed up by e-mail and she hasn't written me back. I got impatient and started looking around more. My friend Sally e-mailed me a link to this bedding from Serena & Lily.

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I love it...I'm a sucker for seersucker...and it's the "Graham" collection (haha). The picture makes me think of my Graem...with the nautical inspired decor (oars & ropes on the shades), not to mention the seersucker. Although S&L's description of their Graham doesn't really match up with the description of my Graem. The first line, "Graham is hip," really cracks me up! And if you know my Graem you will understand this.

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The coordinating pillow on the S&L site has a "d" on it...how appropriate!

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I found the whole set, including lots of extras (roman shades, changing pad cover, pillow, blanket) on eBay!! I'm working on getting everything together & I'll post pictures of the nursery when its all done! Sometime between now and March 11. :)


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Wednesday, January 11, 2012

I Have Proof...

...Roper and Leah used to love each other.

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What happened??

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Tuesday, January 10, 2012

Happy New Year!

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I'm just getting around to posting pictures of our New Year's beach trip...which at this point seems like it was about a month ago! We spend every New Years with our good friends the Maryanskis...this was our 8th year in a row so I guess you could call it a tradition!

This year we celebrated with a beautiful weekend in Ocean Isle Beach...the weather was amazing and felt more like May than late December. It was very relaxing...except when Roper and Leah were tormenting each other! Those two are like oil and water. We all joked that they will probably end up having crushes on each other one day!

And the reason it seems so long ago is that as soon as we got home from the beach on New Year's Day, Graem packed up and headed to Orlando for a full week. His trip was primarily for work, but when the Gamecocks were selected for the Capital One Bowl, he extended his trip on the front end by a couple of nights so he could make it to the game. I'm so glad he got to go to the game, but I will be honest and say it might have been the longest week of my life!

Graem used to travel all the time for work, so when this trip came up, I thought "no big deal, I'm an old pro at this." HA. It was a little different this time...
I'm 7 months pregnant.
I have a 4 year old and a 2 year old.
It is really exhausting to get two young boys fed, bathed & ready for bed by 8:00 by yourself when you are 7 months pregnant.
We just recently moved the 2 year old to a "big boy" bed and he is still learning that he can't get out of bed 56 times after we put him down...extending bedtime from our normal 8:00 to as late as 9:30.
He is also still learning that 5:30 AM is not an appropriate time to come downstairs or start jumping on his brother's bed, screaming "Wake up, Bubba! Wake up, Bubba!"
It is really hard to get my 7-months pregnant self and two young boys dressed, fed & out the door in the morning without the help of Graem. Thank goodness I did not have to do this every day {at least the "out the door" part...I did manage to make sure we were all fed & dressed each day}.
All three of us were fighting colds {and exhaustion} last week.

So...I spent most of the week in survival mode and I have never been happier to see my husband than when we picked him up from the airport on Friday night! It is funny how a little perspective can make you appreciate someone even more than you already did!

Okay, on to the pictures from the beach...
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The progression of these next two pictures cracks me up. Baby Allyson is such a content little chunk, particularly when she is eating...
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It is so funny how Mason can be so much like his Daddy. He loves to be on a mission...and his mission during this walk was to collect as many sticks as possible.
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I had some fun with these pictures I took with my iPhone...thanks to Heidi for recommending the BeFunky app...after tinkering with my pictures it let me upload them directly to my Flickr account!

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Our angels making sand angels...
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One of the neatest things about Ocean Isle is that it faces south, unlike most of the beaches on our coast. Which means it gets a beautiful sunset on the western side of the island...
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Monday, January 2, 2012

Ta Da...Our Finished Kitchen!

I first posted about our kitchen renovation waaayyy back in June!! The renovation began in July...with a couple of update posts later in July and then in August. I was starting to wonder if I would ever post the "final" pictures! Maybe you were wondering the same thing! :)

Everything was pretty much complete in August, with the exception of 2 things: a new kitchen table and a light fixture for over the table. We found a table that we love at the Pottery Barn outlet in Gaffney over Labor Day weekend. I convinced Graem to take a detour through Gaffney on our way home from the football game in Charlotte (haha, not really "on the way" at all). It was just what we were looking for -- dark wood (to contrast with our new lighter cabinets), oval, and a good size for the space. Unfortunately it would not fit in our car. So I headed back up on Monday in the truck, which turned out to our advantage because they had tagged our table as a Labor Day doorbuster! That kind of stuff never happens to me! I brought it home and it sat in our garage waiting to be assembled for...a while.

I was indecisive on a light fixture...the hardware on our cabinets is dark, almost black, and the metal on the light fixture above our sink is gray. I finally settled on a simple chandelier...the clincher was the name -- the Graham chandelier. :) It's not as dark as our hardware but it works.

The week before Christmas I finally conceded that the kitchen will never be 100% done (sorry, Graem). Our house is a work in progress. I just dropped off some prints to be framed last week which will hang on the wall beside our kitchen table. Point being, I better go ahead and post these pictures because if I wait for everything to be perfect I will be waiting forever!

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{I had originally planned to use shades on the bulbs, but I've decided I like the bare look. I want to switch the bulbs out for some round bulbs, like these.}
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For our backsplash we used subway tile in a herringbone pattern behind the cooktop stove...
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...and the standard pattern (I think its called railroad...or maybe train track) everywhere else...
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I am really enjoying everything about our {mostly} new kitchen. I feel like there are so many things I agonized over...the hardware, the backsplash, the granite, the lighting, the paint colors...but everything really came together. I have always dreamed of building a house...well, you know, not actually building one but paying someone to build one for me. But after going through this kitchen re-do I'm not sure I could handle all the decisions that would have to be made!


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Friday, December 30, 2011

Christmas Day in N.A.

After Graem and I got married, we began the tradition of spending Christmas Eve with the Roper family on the farm and Christmas Day with the Clark family in North Augusta. I am so thankful that our families are close enough for us to spend time with both of them during the holidays (and the rest of the year, for that matter). Now that we have children, I truly appreciate that we established a tradition before they were born which allows us to spend the night at home on Christmas Eve, so that the children will always wake up in our home on Christmas morning.

This year in particular was exhausting for me...the preparation of getting the presents purchased & wrapped, the food cooked, burning up I-26 and I-20...but I know that when we look back on the Christmas of 2011 we will not remember those details, but instead will remember the good times we spent with our loved ones. Worth it, for sure!

Here are a few pictures from Christmas Day with the Clarks...I have just recently started using the external flash for my camera and I was disappointed with the exposure on these pictures...I need to tinker with the flash a little more. It was a birthday gift, and considering my birthday was back in March, it was about time I figured out how to use my new flash! I'm sure I'll get better with practice. :)

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{M&R forced their way into the picture with Brian & Trish}
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Yes, Roper is wearing rainboots. He pitched a royal fit about having to wear overalls...he wanted to wear pants like his brother. He was not a happy camper. The rainboots were a peace offering...I packed his bucks to change into but they never made it on his feet. Oh well! It rained all day so at least his bucks didn't get ruined in the mud.

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