I'm still catching up on April news...Roper woke up the second morning of spring break insisting that he wear big boy underwear.
The timing wasn't ideal...I had not intended to potty train Roper while Duncan was only 3 weeks old...I was hoping to start sometime in the summer...but how do you say "no" to a 2-year-old that wants to give all his diapers to his baby brother?
It was peer pressure at its best. We spent Monday with my friend Kate and her 2 boys (which since then has increased to 3 boys!). Jesse, Charlie, Mason & Roper had the best time playing in the sprinkler...and Roper was the only one with a swim diaper on under his trunks. I think he finally realized that diapers are for babies!
He embraced potty training...not to say we haven't had
a few many accidents along the way. Graem was out of town for week 2 of potty training.
He made the mistake of checking in He checked in with me one morning from his meeting in Arizona...

Yeah...that was a long day. Sometimes whatever happens in the morning seems to set the tone for the rest of the day, therefore that was one crappy day (ha). The other thing Roper has been doing is pooping in the yard. Ridiculous. But I think we've gotten through that too. Or maybe I should say he's gotten it out of his system (sorry, couldn't resist).
And now my potty training disclaimer/tips to anyone that might be embarking on this filthy adventure...
I take a very relaxed approach to potty training. I'm by no means an expert, but after going through this dreaded experience with two children, I've made some observations that worked for us that yall might find helpful.
One of my college roommates (Becky) passed along some helpful advice which I've since shared with friends...a good indicator that your child is ready to start training is when they wake up in the morning or from naps dry. This shows that they have some "bladder readiness." Another good sign is when they wake up insisting that we give all their diapers to the baby.
During "training," when we're home & awake, I put them in underwear; when we go out or when they go to bed, I put them in pull-ups. This breaks all the potty training rules that you'll read in books, most of which tell you to go cold turkey to underwear. That's just not practical for us, I can't tolerate having to clean up an accident in the car, grocery store, etc.
It's helpful to potty train when its warm outside, so you can spend as much time in the yard as possible and minimize damage to your floors & furniture.
I try to take them to the potty about every hour or within 30 minutes of eating/drinking. The rewards system worked well for us...m&m's or jelly beans or gummy bears or skittles or tic tacs. I mixed it up to keep it interesting. 1 treat for staying dry and clean + 1 treat for #1 + 2 treats for #2. Which means they could max out with 4 treats on each trip!
Mason and Roper both caught on to #1 before #2...so I had to be a little manipulative with their diet to get them going. For instance: oatmeal & prune juice for breakfast, then straight to the potty. This would typically result in a reward, and before long they got the hang of it.
Just for boys (might help with girls too, not sure?) -- a friend of mine taught me to put them on the potty backwards, ie facing the tank. This was more helpful for Mason, who we trained to do #1 sitting down at first. Roper went straight to standing up because that is what he saw his big brother doing. We used a potty seat with Mason but not Roper. Potty seats are gross. Anyway, the sitting backwards helped direct the spray into the water & also seemed to give him some security for #2.
Those are just some tips that worked for us that hopefully some of you will find helpful. My two oldest have been trained before turning 3, which I count as a success, especially considering that Roper was a baby when Mason was potty training and of course we had a brand new baby when we started potty training Roper. The good news is that I only had 2 children in diapers for a matter of weeks this time!!