Snaggle Tooth

The last shot of the full baby tooth smile...

20 Teeth:


19 Teeth:

Overwhelmed

I'm here to admit that life with three children has been a HUGE adjustment for us. People told me that three was not much harder than two. They lied.

My mantra when Roper was born was to make sure that M&R napped at the same time every day. That really doesn't happen when you throw a third into the mix. It has happened a handful of times, but it's not an everyday occurrence, maybe once a week.

Duncan is definitely my neediest baby, he loves to be held and I guess you would say that he is colicky. The nurse at our ped's office has suggested that I cut dairy out of my diet...but it takes 3 weeks for the dairy protein to get out of your system. What if that ends up not being the problem? I have a long list of things to discuss with our ped at D's 2-month check-up on Thursday. But let's face it, when I have a 2-year-old and 4-year-old to keep up with and the baby cries, he gets held.

So...we are having fun but I feel overwhelmed. Yet I still feel the need to blog. I want to document all the things that are going on with us so that our friends and loved ones that follow my blog can share in them. Also it makes me so happy to read back through my old posts and I just don't want to miss some of this stuff!

Duncan is only 8 weeks old...we are coming off a week of Graem being out of town...I don't believe that "overwhelmed" is our "new normal" but it is for the time being. This too shall pass and we'll get into a routine at some point.

Here's a quick rundown of what's been going on with us:
-Duncan is on the verge of sleeping through the night. I think it will happen in the next week. He still gets up between 3:00 and 4:00 but he falls back asleep before he has had a full feeding.
-Roper is potty trained.
-Mason lost his first tooth.
-Graem and I spent a long weekend in Vancouver and then Graem went on an 8-day Alaskan cruise.

I promise to be back with pictures at some point, hopefully sooner rather than later!

Catching Up: Easter

I'm determined to catch up on the blog posts that I've had floating around in my head for the past few weeks! My Easter pictures are limited and really random...Duncan had just turned 3 weeks old at that point and the whole weekend is kind of a blur! Thursday we went to the zoo with friends...Friday we cooked out & hunted eggs with friends...Saturday we had our church egg hunt at the beautiful Saluda River Club outdoor center...and Sunday we celebrated the resurrection of our Savior with a beautiful church service followed by visiting family at the farm. Easter baskets were sort of an afterthought for us this year. The week before Easter I took M&R to get Easter shoes and Mason begged to try on these: Me: "We aren't here for tennis shoes, we are only getting Easter shoes." Mason (on the way out of the store): "That's okay, Mama. You don't have to buy those orange shoes for me. The Easter Bunny knows I want them and he'll bring them to me." Yeah. There could be worse things that a little boy wants from the Easter Bunny, right? At least shoes will be worn and they are definitely better for him than a bunch of candy! So, the Easter Bunny obliged Mason's #1 request and also brought some for Roper. (For some reason my iPhone photos turn out blurry when the flash is on) Please note the shoes and ignore the fact that my child brought a huge stick in the house. We made these "resurrection rolls" on Easter morning. They turned out just right and were really tasty!

Source: eatatallies.com via Brantley on Pinterest

All of the ingredients have a meaning...the dough represents the cloth that Christ was wrapped in; the marshmallow represents Jesus, all white and pure because he was without sin, etc. Hopefully we can make this a tradition! Here are Mason and Roper right before leaving for church: While we were at the farm Duncan got to meet Gigi. Here is Gi with her eighth great-granchild!

First Bath

Rest assured that we didn't wait until now to give Duncan his first bath! This is an old picture, taken during his first week at home, but I couldn't resist posting it...he has already outgrown the sink and now gets bathed in the infant tub. And here is what the big boys were doing while Duncan got his first bath...

One Month Old

I can already feel it...my resistance to my baby getting any older! I know he is only one month old, but it has flown by! The past month has been a complete whirlwind!

I didn't do this with Mason or Roper, but with Duncan I'm planning to do a picture on the 17th of each month so I'll have a nice collage (or two) for his first birthday. So...if the adage about having fewer pictures of the younger children proves true at least I'll have one picture of him each month! :)

My talented friend Tara let me borrow the onesies that she made for Tripp to wear each month...



It was a challenge to get a shot of him looking so peaceful...Roper was trying to help...



...which didn't always suit Duncan...




I also saw this cute collage that I will try to {kind of} re-create:

Source: theletterbphotography.com via Brantley on Pinterest

M.I.A.

I can hardly believe it has been three weeks since I've posted anything on my blog! I love blogging, but I love reading other blogs even more...and I'm just now catching up on reading the blogs that I follow!

The past four weeks have been a whirlwind...I feel like I am going 90 mph most days, particularly last week when I had all three boys...all week...all to myself. M&R's pre-school had spring break. A break for the teachers and the children, certainly not for the mama's! :) More on spring break later...I have lots of catching up to do...for now, here's Roper getting rid of his whiskers...





Mason got this kid's shaving kit for Christmas. The boys have LOVED playing with it! If you are in need of a gift idea for a little boy I highly recommend this!

Duncan's Birth Day

The idea of me detailing my labor might bore you to tears...if you don't want to read this it won't offend me because I will never know! :)

I had resigned myself to the idea of an induction on 3/19...well it was more than resignation...I was beginning to see all the perks of a scheduled delivery. As we all know by now, Little D had other plans!

Thurs night, 3/15: Graem & the boys & I went to Sam's Club. As I was walking around Sam's I was having more frequent Braxton Hicks contractions (ie not painful but contractions nonetheless) and was feeling more pressure from the baby. Kept thinking about it being the 15th of the month...I went into labor with both M&R on the 15th of their birth months. Didn't go into labor but didn't sleep but a few hours that night!

Fri morning: Met Tara, Ruth Ann & Tripp at the zoo...beautiful day...I felt good! Tara made sure she knew how to get to first aid...just in case!



Fri pm: Dinner at El Chico...spicy food. Came home, put boys to bed. Graem started up the BGE and put on a boston butt to smoke overnight for his dad's birthday dinner on Saturday. I was getting ready to go to bed early since I didn't sleep the night before...water broke at about 8:45 pm! Sydney rushed over to STN with Mason & Roper. Grandparents headed to Lexington. They were in for a long night...



10:00-10:30 PM Admitted to hospital (had to first go through triage to confirm that my water broke...there was no doubt in my mind, this was the third time after all!) Moved us back to the labor & delivery room.

1:00 AM Requested epidural.

1:30 AM Nurse - "I'm sorry but we can't find your blood work in the lab. We'll have to re-do your blood work before we can give you the epidural." For real?

2:30 AM Finally get the epidural (1.5 hours and many contractions later). ahhhh...

2:40 AM The nurses call in my doctor because the baby's heartbeat is irregular.

3:00 AM They decide to put a scalp electrode on D's head to monitor heart. They discover he is ready to be born. Why did I get the epidural??

3:15 AM The delivery room is in a frenzy as extra nurses and doctors come in. Everyone is concerned about the heart rate. I just want to see my baby!

3:25 AM Baby Duncan is born!!

When Mason and Roper were born, I immediately got to hold them. When Duncan was born, Graem cut the cord, I got a good look at him, then the doctors whisked him off to listen to his heart. First they were listening to him with stethoscopes and I could see plainly on their faces that what they were hearing was not what they wanted to hear. It was really very scary.

They decided to take him down to special care to put him on a heart monitor, on the way out the door they let me hold him for about 5 seconds and they let Graem hold him for about 2.5 seconds! I felt so helpless. If it weren't for that blasted epidural I would have been right there with them in special care!

No one wants to see their baby hooked up to all these cords!



6:00 AM The nurses move us to our room.

6:30 AM Finally get to see D again, feed him. He can't come back to our room because they are still monitoring his heart.

7:30-9:00 AM Cat nap. Duncan has EKG that confirms irregular heart rhythms, aka arrhythmia. Pediatric cardiologist explained that there is a flap in his heart that is immature/not fully developed that is causing the arrhythmia. He expects that as he grows it will fix itself, possibly even by Duncan's 2-week check-up (scheduled for 4/3)!!

9:30 AM Doctors take Duncan off monitor and let him come to our room. He gets to meet his brothers and many other family members and friends! What a lucky little fella!!

At Duncan's 4-day check-up last Wednesday, our pediatrician could still hear the arrhythmia but said it is much improved. Although it was scary because it was so unexpected, I really have a peace about it and know that he is going to be just fine!